Friday, May 11, 2012

Mom Thoughts

I love Timothy Egan's writing. His book, The Worst Hard Time, is a remarkable portrayal of the Dust Bowl. This piece from the NY Times tugged at me. My maternal grandmother was born on May 11, 1906. She was a feisty person who loved baseball, politics and good food. My mother did, too. New Yorkers both, my mother and grandmother were passionate women with twinkly eyes and no shortage of opinions on a variety of topics. I was raised by both women and most days, I am the better for having been the recipient of so much love and spunk and wisdom. If apples don't fall far from trees, I am an apple. I am their kin. I am my grandmother and my mother. It has been thirty five years since I've lived in New York. I've been very influenced by the decade I lived in North Carolina and the nearly two decades that I've lived in the Midwest. I still talk fast and walk quickly, but I am a softer version of my New York matriarchs. Over the years, people important to me who did not know my family of origin have called me "fiercely loyal" and "intellectually honest." I treasure those labels because I value what they stand for and they link me with my foremothers, because they were, too. I like that. Timothy Eagan writes that our mothers are the "scrapbooks of our enthusiasms." I like that, too. And I am grateful that, though it has been thirty years since my grandmother's death and only four since my mom's, I am the scrapbook of theirs.

5 comments:

Hot Cup Lutheran said...

what a lovely article - thanks for the link.

oh mommas... it's so hard when they're gone. so hard... but i like the thought that somehow, the scraps remain... different. hidden. but part of me.

Martha Spong said...

What a lovely remembrance of your foremothers.

Terri said...

Lovely, indeed!

Jan said...

I like the way you ended with "I am a scrapbook for others." Nice article and remembrances. I'm glad you wrote.

Diane said...

I love your writing (and Timothy Egan's too), and agree with Jan, "I am a scrapbook for others" is a wonderful sentence.

Thank you.